Allene's Insights

Thoughts and Ponderings from
America's First Lady of Broadcast Psychic Counseling,
Allene Cunningham

June 2008

COMMUNICATION

To be a good communicator you must first be a good listener. Words are the way we express our emotions and feelings to one another. In my counseling sessions I hear daily "My spouse does not understand me. We do not communicate. We always end up in a bitter fighting battle." Often this happens because you are trying to prove you are "right." Remember this: it is much better to be loved, than to be "right." If you can feel the meaning of what the other person is trying to say, and they can feel yours, you can solve most problems. It is impossible to solve any problem when you believe you are "right" no matter what.

In trying to communicate with another person, do not review or dwell on the past. You really can't prove or change anything, so let it go! Deal with the little problems at hand and don't compare them to something in the past. The tone of your voice has a rhythm and feeling. Shouting and screaming does noting but stir up anger in your children, spouse, or anyone else you're attempting to communicate with. Bosses in business who are harsh and yell and put people down in their work get little results -- except a lot of hate. They may think they are gods, but no one else does. When talking to another person, use a caring tone. It will go a long way in making the other person want to understand you.

I have been in radio 35 years and have worked with thousands of people. The compliment I get most often is, "I love the sound of your voice. Your voice says you understand and you care." Work at listening to the emotion in other's voices and you will find you are becoming a good listener. In turn, putting your feelings and your emotions into your voice will certainly help you become a good communicator.

Can you think of anything that's better than being able to communicate? Start working on it today. You will see immediate results.

I WILL LISTEN, I CAN HELP!

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